Most guys are familiar with the term describing the ideal girl who doesn't lives next door; however hard we prayed and wished she would.
If you have been to some serious parties, one would notice the uber pretty, wild girls patronising the joints. Naturally, us guys will look out for that flirtatious smile, that sexy dance moves and a 'killer' body to match.
Who Is The Girl Next Door?
Let's define her!
Ultimately, it come with terms of our mature instincts such as being naturally pretty, a demure lass with an ideal life of marriage, children and tender love. Once established, we focus on the more finer points that she has come to nurture after years of parental guidance.
Each and every guy has his set of guideline to define his version of the girl-next-door. Generally, she's the girl that you would admire from from a distance and would afraid to approach fearing the consequences would affect the almost perfect ideal of a woman unspoiled by other men that you've come to know.
In a way, you could put it this way;
Say, your sister's best friend when you were young. In your immaculate mind, she's always that 10-year-old cutie who always accompanies you during play time. Only, when you meet up 10 years later, she's still a cutie but all-grown up and you could really connect up to many more levels because of the trust that was built up since then.
What Do We Like About Her?
She's a homebody. She's able to care for the house; cooks, cleans and is capable of bringing in life to the household. She's someone who's not afraid to stay in the house. She thinks that going out often is not the only way of keeping entertained and thinks that potentially, staying indoors does enhance the relationship.
She has family values. She believes in the importance of family. She does not stray far from the character upbringing of herself and her children. Because of this, she always try to do her best as the role of a daughter to her parents, wife to her husband and mother to her children.
She's sweet and alluring. Not by putting on layers of makeup, she's able to project her beauty flawlessly. She doesn't want to flaunt either but dress casually and lightly and make herself as seamless to the world as water in the air. She understands your needs and is prepared to care for you when you're sick. Her sweet demeanor - and knowing that what goes around, comes around - makes you want to be with her and take care of her in turn.
She's low maintenance. However good it might be to dress to impress, she always thinks that jeans and a t-shirt are fashionable and is good enough for a stroll in town. But, when the occasion calls for it, she will dress to the nines. A point to note that you don't have to always buy her presents to keep her on the toes. A simple message which says, "Good morning" or a "Good night" would remind her that you are always thinking of her.
She's predictable and safe. What you see is what you get. You always know where you stand with her. Period. There's almost no guesswork and that's a welcome change from all the dates that played mindgames with you before.
My version of the girl next door.
This girl right here.
Just the girl you want to show your parents to.
Just the girl you want to spend your afternoons with.
Just the girl you would want to cuddle with on the sofa.
Just the girl you would like to cook dinner with.
Just the kind of girl I want to settle down with and raise children with.
She's just the perfect girl.
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I believe my sense of direction with girls are true to the point that looks play an important factor for me to choose a life partner. Let's face it; all of us has some vices that we don't want others to know.
I am but a normal person. What do I know?
